About

Sachiko McLean is a glamour model unlike any other. A classically trained pianist and singer in three different languages (English, Mandarin Chinese and Japanese) with a bachelor degree in education, she is far from your average bimbo model. Unlike most other glamour models, who will simply do anything to be famous, Sachiko uses her fame as an opportunity to support the causes she believes in: rationalism, secularism, humanism, environmentalism, racial and sexual equality, finding real solutions to end war and global conflict, and freeing the world of sexual suppression. She puts this into practice on her modelling web site, where she expresses herself not only through artistic nudes, but also through her performance as a belly dancer, singer and pianist. Sachiko believes you shouldn’t have to switch off your brain to appreciate the beauty of the naked female body, nor should you feel ashamed about it. That’s why she’s the thinking man’s glamour model.

Having said that, we sadly live in a world where a web site is restricted simply because it contains nudity, so in order to reach as wide an audience as possible, we have made the difficult decision to keep this blog strictly non-nude for now. Of course, for those who wish to see that side of Sachiko’s work, you can always go to her modelling web site.

I make my mark in world history by humbly writing your first comment. (Or the first one since the last wipe… since it is often hectic in the early hours and days of a new site :) )

You are an original, interesting and bright personality I always looked at from afar (since I am from France that could be explained).

Congrats for you strong character and your work on the female body and the expression of your feminine nature.

Kisses, French kisses obviously. :)

  
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Thanks Sltmkr! Unfortunately you were beaten to the punch by Carl, but you are the first person to comment on this page. ;)

  
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It’s pretty sad we live in a world where nudity and sexuality is looked upon as bad or sinful. If the same values were applied to the works of Michelangelo and Leonardo da Vinci when they produced the world’s most famous paintings and statues, most of which were nudes commissioned by the Church, would have never been made.

Fortunately for the world, it’s going to be insightful people like Sachiko to enlighten those who are severely misguided that nudity and sex are okay and to be enjoyed.

  
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That’s a really good point John – the hypocrisy of the Church’s attitude toward sex and nudity knows no bounds it seems.

One can only hope I am able to succeed in enlightening people about this issue – with the help of enlightened people like yourself, of course!

  
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Thank you for your kind comments, you’re much too kind. I’ll do what I can in this cause, because I’m here to serve.

As for the Church’s hypocrisy, you’re absolutey right in more ways than one. I could start a regligious holy war with my comments about the Church from personal experience but I’ll save those comments for another time.

  
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Without my fans, I would just be a voice in the wilderness – my fans are what make my voice powerful enough for many people to hear. And that is especially so when they are able to support what I say. So just by being here and offering your thoughts, you are very much helping my cause!

  
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Hi Sachiko. I am one of your friends in MySpace. Great to see you starting your own blog. You are one of the most beautiful Asian women besides Gong Li, Joan Chen. Hope to hear more from you.

  
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Thanks khotl73! You will be hearing more from me later today. :-)

  
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Hello, my name is Anurag and I am one of your fans. I hope that you will be one of the most famous women in this world like Oprah Winfrey. I want the message of sexuality and nudity in the right sense to get across to many people as possible. :-)

  
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Thanks Anurag! I will certainly do my best. ;-)

  
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You’re welcome. :-)

  
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hi Sachiko finally i found your blog, I was really looking forward to it. other then that how are you doing?

  
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I am fine thanks. So you had trouble finding my blog?

  
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yea a bit, but it doesn’t matter now lol

  
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GregInVancouver

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Hey Sachiko,

Just stopping in to say hi, having posted my first of what no doubt will be many comments .

I admit to being amused at the thought of referring overly religious people to your blog when they want to argue atheism but are sick of of Richard Dawkins.

“You don’t like how Richard looks?, Well then, here’s a much better-looking atheist!” :-)

And truly, natural is the way to go.

  
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Hi Greg,

That is an amusing idea – I guess I am a little better looking than Richard. ;-) Welcome to my blog!

  
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BTW, how old are ya? You seem to be lookin’ young.

  
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There’s a special reason I’m keeping that information close to my chest – all will be revealed soon! ;-)

  
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Sachiko,

I see. However, are you older than me? I am 18.

  
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Yes, I certainly am. :-)

  
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Hi Sachiko,

Long time no see ya. How are you? Sorry not to see ya on Christmas since I had no time to use the internet as I was busy studying for my holidays.

However, its surprising for me to see that you haven’t written any updates on the recent Mumbai’s blasts in India. It was even on the Australian channel.

Are situations there in Brisbane recovered after a great typhoon there?

BTW, what do ya wear most of the time? What do you more for living? How do ya spend your day? What are ya wearin’ right now?

  
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Hi Anurag,

I’ve been pretty preoccupied recently, but I don’t really know what to say about the Mumbai blasts anyway, as I don’t really know anything about the terrorist groups responsible for it. There’s just so much of this stuff these days, so unless I feel I can offer some insight, I don’t know what I can say.

Regarding the “typhoon” in Brisbane, we have had a very severe storm season, but it still isn’t quite as bad as a typhoon. One suburb (The Gap) had a lot of damage (although I don’t think anyone was killed), but apart from that it hasn’t been too bad. I’m surprised it made the news overseas actually!

As for your other questions, I prefer to write about more substantial things than my personal life. :-)

  
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Hi Sachiko,

Never mind. But, what do u wear most the time at home, and are ya wearin’ right now?

  
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Something very daggy, as I always do when I’m not in the public eye – I often just wear panties. ;-)

  
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Sachiko,

When you say ‘daggy’ do you mean by ‘ extremely sexy?”

  
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As I prefer not to wear very much when I’m at home, I guess many people would see it that way. ;-)

  
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Hi Sachiko,

I would like to ask you some questions?

Did guys in your college and school periods made fun of you and teased you for dressing ‘daggy?’ Did they bully you for your flirtatious behaviour?

This due to the fact that my mother advised me that 3 categories of women often get bullied and teased by naughty boys,

1. daggy and fashionable

All men would dream to have’em but since a woman prefer only one, men, out of jealousy would try their best to insult and tease her.

2. flirtatious women

Men would regard liberated women who flirt to be ‘bitches’ thus insulting them

3. shy ones.

Did it happen to you?

  
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Hi Anurag,

Actually, I never dressed daggy in school or college, and I’ve never been a follower of fashion either. However, I did get into trouble for being “flirtatious” when I was growing up in Taiwan, both from my parents and from my teachers. Simply being friendly with boys was considered “flirtatious” for girls in Taiwan at that time. However, I didn’t have any trouble from boys – only my parents and teachers.

  
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Hi Sachiko,

I see. India was a way worse than Taiwan. Indian men have the right to bully girls than girls and has always been a tradition there in India. Its even been a considered to be a symbol of ‘guyness’ by many folks in India. Its till a norm there in India. The point of telling a guy being friendly to his own sex and a girl to her own sex really ‘annoys’ me as this is an act of ‘sexism’ at this age. Everytime I sit alone, my dad suggests me to talk to some of your guy friends instead of just callin’ them friends. Whenever, I say that a girl is myfreind, they think twice before making a reaction. Why does this form of ‘sexism’ exists at this age? Living in India might be a boring experience to me. Can’t a guy simply be a friend with a girl?

  
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Oh Sachiko,

I still couldn’t get tired of seeing you completely in the nude. I believe that there’re a lot we can get bored of if we see, do, listen, et.c repetitively but not by looking at a beautiful woman in the nude.

  
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Sachiko,

How about a nude belly dancing?

  
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Hi Anurag,

You can see that in the members’ section of my web site, or you can watch it on my Raw Demo DVD!

  
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I ‘ve seen it. Basically, I meant totally in the nude. Fully.

  
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I am totally, fully nude in the final section of my full members’ version of the video (and on the DVD).

  
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But I saw you wearing a panty in the last part of the member’s section.

  
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That’s just the opening frame – they come off pretty quickly! :-)

  
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Woohoo! I love it when you say that.

  
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“Finding real solutions to end wars and global conflicts” – From About.

If I knew said solutions I’d tell them to two of my friends. One is in the army, the other in the navy.

That aside, I gotta say you are one smart woman. I don’t think I’d understand you considering I just got out of high school. You are also doing alot of stuff. It kinda makes me wanna get off the couch and do stuff. I guess you have no time for men since you are busy, despite the fact that you got alot of male fans?

  
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I wish I did have more time for men – I like them very much. ;-) And thankyou for your compliments. :-)

  
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Hi Sachiko,

Is it alrite for you if guys younger than your age or very much younger masturbate visualizing or looking at your picz? Many have considered abnormal for guys if they wank or think sexually of women older than them. Its also abnormal for them to get attracted to them. DO you agree with this? Well, personally, I don’t.

  
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Hi Anurag,

I can’t see any reason why there should be a problem with this at all – indeed, as masturbation is completely harmless, I don’t see why people shouldn’t be able to do it to whatever they want! And there’s certainly nothing abnormal about a young guy being attracted to a woman with experience – young virgin girls can be very difficult to deal with sometimes! The men who only like young virgins are just very insecure about their own penis: they just can’t handle being compared with other guys.

  
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Sachiko,

I see. Thanks for a nice piece of of advice. :-)

  
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I should mention that many young boys really like me, and I get hit on by teenage guys all the time. :-)

  
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Hi Sachiko,

Nice to here it from you. BTW, when you were young, i.e. when your parents used to finance you for your education and did you followed their orders, argued with them or requested and gave them some suggestions? Were you forced to dress as they desired. Where are your parents now? Are you still in contact with them or not? May be the reason why you aren’t as famous as you deserve is because you changed motherland and have embrassed western culture. Do you have really good friends in Australia? Did they ever asked you questions like these? Do you believe with the statement ‘ rules are rules’ no matter how wrong it gets? Many have said that if rules are to be followed, no matter how wrong it is, things would go smoothly and effectively and there would be peace and harmony.

Also, do you believe in family values?

  
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Hi Sachiko,

Last Friday, I was reading an international news article from an Indian magazine, and they showed a pic. of ladies taken photographed in the nude without any orgies and stripped nude for free. The writer added that this photograph cares only about his clothes, cars, and house, he doen’t have any empathy nor sympathy, care, love, or warmth for people. Was she right? It was really like a slap in my face. Was she a typical feminist? Please tell me. It was really, really a slap in my face.

  
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Hi Anurag,

I’m not sure I understand what you’re saying in your second comment. Can you please clarify?

Regarding your first comment, they are some good questions, which deserve a fairly long answer.

My parents certainly did want me to follow a conservative dress code. When I didn’t, I was abused by them and many other people. But once I became financially indepedent, I moved out to live by myself, and started to do everything my own way, including how I dressed. After much effort to communicate with my family, it was obvious that they weren’t really interested in communication, and just wanted to force me to follow tradition. So I cut them off completely. After a few years, they missed me too much and begged me to go back. I insisted on always being financially independent, and told them that if they didn’t respect me for who I was, they’d lose me forever, and they knew very well that I was not joking. Since then they have learned to respect my anti-conservative behaviour.

I believe in family values, but only when they can respect individual differences. I believe that if people don’t respect who I am, that means they don’t really love me, and therefore don’t deserve my love or respect. Then I’ll simply walk away and ignore them without hesitation – even my own family.

In Muslim countries, people follow the rules of their religion (or at least they try to), and look at how chaotic and violent they are! Obviously, just to follow the wrong rules doesn’t guarantee you peace and happiness at all. So no, I do not believe in following the wrong rules (obviously!). Indeed, I want to change the rules to make them work better for everyone. It will take long time, but every bit of progress and change is greatly rewarding! In human history, many people have changed the rules and brought new enlightenment to others. So even though it’s not easy, it’s certainly not impossible.

I have not been greatly famous so far yet because I’ve chosen to do things in a non-traditional way. This way is often a long hard road, no matter which country you live in. But every day I feel so happy and proud that I am running everything in my life exactly the way I want. There have been many conservative people secretly envying me or even openly telling me that they envy my way of life, and wish to be like me, or even wish to be me – and that’s not even speaking of all the people all over the world who love and support me. This path has not been easy, but has been greatly rewarding!

On the other hand, lots of people disagree with me and hate me to death (you’ll see many of them on the net!), and obviously my way of doing things won’t suit everyone. But I can only tell you my way. Everything in this world comes at a price – no pain, no gain. Often if you gain something, you’ll also lose something else. Nothing is perfect in this world, and everyone has to decide what are the most important things for themselves, and will probably have to sacrifice other things. You seem to be a nice, intelligent and open-minded young man. I hope you are able to find the right path for yourself!

  
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Hi Sachiko,

What I meant for my second question was to ask you if she was being like most of the current feminists and how much did you hated what she said?

  
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Actually Anurag, I don’t think I understand what you say she said, or exactly what she said it about.

  
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Hello Sachiko,

BTW, she meant that the photographer who took that mass nude shoot was too selfish and greeedy. He doesn’t have any warm-hearted feelings for others.

I meant was to ask you if she was being like those evil feminists in this modern world. And I wanted ask you on how much did you hate on what she wrote.

  
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Well yes, she does sound like one of those “evil” feminists. They are just as suppressive of women’s freedom to do as they choose as the worst men are – they are not truly feminist at all in my opinion.

  
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Sachiko,

Is skin the best cloth for you? Imagine if you could able control your body temp. even under harsh weather, public was clothing optional, and your skin could protect you under whichever environment, would you love to walk wearing only your skin ( lip sticks in occasions and shoes when outdoors?)

  
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Hi Anurag. In a word, absolutely!

  
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Sachiko,

I love to here that. I really love you ( not in a manner in making sexual or romantic relationship)

  
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Once, a very good friend of mine from France defended me from my other friends on my view that nude female can be an art. However, he didn’t personally agreed with it. He just respected my view. He tells me to respect others point of views. Once I e-mailed him that I was not a porn freak and his reply was that he agreed with me as he lived in France for many years ( though of a Yemeni origin) and learnt all kinds of arts. What was so strange about him was when I started sending him some tasteful nude photoz, he got disgusted with it and said those photos were perverted as women were ‘nude’ and behaving so cheerfully which is contradictory of women who pose in a typical art. He said that porn picz weren’t as hypocritic as the picz i had sent. Since, porn picz openly stated that they were porn picz unlike the other one. He’s a really very helpful and trusted friend of mine. What do you think of this guy? I won’t mind.

  
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I think I can understand what he means – I guess he thinks art is always supposed to be serious, which I guess it is most of the time. But I don’t think it has to be that way, and I think a beautiful, naked female body is a work of art in itself, and can be appreciated on its own terms – I think mother nature is the greatest artist of all actually. So I respect his point of view, but I don’t agree with him.

  
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Sachiko,

That means you don’t see a tasteful photo of a nude woman being cheerful to be perverted?

  
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No, not at all! As I’ve said before, to be nude is simply to be natural, and free from conservative BS.

  
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I see.

  
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Hi Sachiko,

I have to tell you on what happened to me when I was 15 years old. When I was studying with an American teacher who claimed herself to be a very liberal and open-minded teacher used to doubt it. Its because, when she was once tellin’ us that in Malaysia there’s so much restrictions as people aren’t even allowed to walk around in the nude in public unlike in the US where people never felt like to look at each other as it was a norm there, I disagreed with her in some ways. I told her that even though we won’t find it sexually-arousing all the time, we would still look at it as a beautiful woman in the nude looks beautiful, which made her get shocked saying I really had a weird and bizarre idea. She opposed me by saying that a mountain is beautiful but not a woman and if I do, then it means that I am having an hormonal and sexual imbalance and thus having a psychological problem. She even said that she was a Biology major and about to become a doctor and all this sounded abnormal to her. What even shocks me more is that she says that open-mindededness was her identity. She even had a background similar as yours. What do you think about this lady.

  
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This sounds like one of those conversations where one (or both) people may have misunderstood the other person, so I am reluctant to pass judgement. Suffice it to say, there is nothing wrong at all with looking at an attractive woman sexually or as an object of beauty, whether she is naked or not.

  
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FIne Sachiko,

Just now a friend of mine told me that a person who gets inspired by female beauty is a pervert.

  
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You keep telling me other people say this sort of thing Anurag – all I can say is that they are wrong.

  
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I see, Sachiko, I am sorry if I have annoyed you all this while, I am just trying to convince myself that I am not having any psychological problems as I live in a soceity which contradicts with mine and yours point of view. Its really hard to survive in a place where you have to hear oppositions at every moment of your lifetime, therefore, being in contact with you might be the right option.

  
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Hi Anurag. You haven’t annoyed me, but there really isn’t much more I can say about this. As I said, when I was growing up I was in a similar situation to you – everybody told me the way I thought was wrong. But I knew I was right, and time has proven me correct. You have to believe in yourself too.

  
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Hi Sachiko, thanks for the right advice. Well, you can e-mail me back with suggestions while I ask you on how to cope with people who disrespect my viewpoints as you’ve more experience than me and are from a similar culture.

  
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Sachiko,

I dun get the point around on how could our natural human body would be considered to be worse than someone smashing the windscreen of a dignitary’s car. SOme might even see it to be worse than an excrement. So, in a nutshell, how can the nude body be so disgusting esp. the female nude body? How would it be the worst kind of thing in the universe?

  
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Exactly! Of course the natural human body can’t possibly be that bad, and that’s the point. It is very plain to see that the people who say this kind of thing must obviously be wrong: it’s just too illogical.

  
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Sachiko,

Yes, I do see your point around. However, I had a friend who used be a very sincere, intelligent, hardworking male friend by the name Isuru who used to dislike female nudity, and he hated Beyonce because of that, he used to say ” Beyonce is so poor that she couldn’t able to afford to wear a modest dress. He also used to ask my another male friend on how much ‘poor’ girls he got in his magazines. When he said poor girls, he meant ‘ skimpily-dressed women.’ His mother was a conservative christian de facto principal of my previous school where Isuru and I used to study. Now , he’s a very successful, industrious medical student at the largest medical institute of Malaysia. Its hard to oppose this guy due to this. What if he sees you, would he call you a ‘poor’ lady? I think one of the reasons why women abhor nudity is that they’re afraid they might be called ‘poor.’ I think its hard to oppose the strong point that nude people are actually poor people and is a symbol of poverty. What do you see all this as?

  
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What a load of rubbish! Just because somebody chooses to wear minimal clothing doesn’t mean they’re poor! Beyonce and a lot of other pop singers and movie stars are very wealthy – a lot more wealthy than your friend I’ll bet. And a lot of those skimpy dresses are very expensive to buy too!

  
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Sachiko,

I agree and obviously, those pop singers a lot more rich than him. However, he ‘s a straight ‘As’ student who got a seat in the best medical college of Malaysia. Also, once, when her mother made me the prefect of my class she told politely not to stare at girls’ legs. I personally fing females’ legs very beautiful if its and like to see it. Is it universally considered to be a deviant behaviour. Is it considered to be a devaint one in Australia.

  
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I don’t care how many As he has – he’s just being conservative. And looking at women’s legs is fine!

  
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Hi Sachiko,

I got reminded of the time when Isuru’s mother was so pissed with us when she got to learn we people were looking at nude women ( obviously in this case for porn). She added on that in Islam they must poke their eyes if they see a nude woman. What is so horrifying about a nude woman that we have to poke our eyes? Its even more horrifying when a good lady like her can say all this. How on earth can even good people say something cruel like this? What can you say about all this?

  
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This is yet another good reason why religion (and its very dangerous sexual suppression) must end.

  
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Sachiko,

I do agree with your part on your sexual suppression but maybe would like to reconsider on religion, as there would be outrage and violence if we tell people to end their religion. People can never change their viewpoint on religion like my mom. How if we modify some parts of our religious text books regarding sexuality, as many religous liberals or even moderates might do?

  
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If what you say was true Anurag, there would not be any atheists – and there are more of them every day. Religion is gradually dying as the world becomes more enlightened – it’s just taking a very, very long time. And sexual suppression will never end as long as religion still exists in its present form.

  
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Dear Sachiko,

Today, i was reminded that in developed countries like in Europe, and the US, women will be graded by the way they dress. If a woman dresses-up skimpily, then she would be a given a very low grade. Is something like that in your country, were you a victim of this? I read this from an international newspaper.

  
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Hi Anurag,

That’s just the usual conservative, jealous BS that I don’t pay any attention to, and nor should you!

  
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Hi Sachiko,

Today, we were seeing preparations for the international day of our school on Saturday. I was wondering what my American teacher would wear? Then I said to my friend on whats the national dress of America and I asked if its a bikini or not and his reply was negative. He said on what I said was extremely ‘perverted.’ He said that it was ‘insulting’ and ‘demeaning’ to her country. When he forwarded my words to that American teacher, she called me a ‘pervert.’ He then said that just nothing was wrong with a bikini but making it as the ‘national’ attire isjust insulting. Now, am i pervert saying that? Please tell me.

  
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No you aren’t – it’s a legitimate question. It seems these people have no sense of humour anyway! :-)

  
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Sachiko,

Thanks for saying so. However, what it if a country made ‘bikini’ her national attire, would you call those people who made it their national attire to be perverted? Please tell me.

  
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In a word, no!

  
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Sachiko,

I see. Today, there was a very heavy, heavy, heavy, heavy backlash against a very beautiful, sexy girl by the name Syahidah Natrah Pula ( Syana). Even though her roots are from Malaysia, she was born and raised in Holland. Her dad is said to be the biggest imam of Holland. Well, in her performance on Saturday, she just danced a bit sensually wearing just tight-fitting clothings (not showing a single bit of skin except for the face and palms and hair ) with her friends. Problem here’s most of the girls in her gang were Muslims and Malays ( a Malaysian race) , it was performed for the parents, and it was performed in the most religiously conservative part of Malaysia. This has made the principal, teachers, many parents extremely angry. Some teachers seemed to be too ashamed to look at them performing. My physics teacher, from a liberal country called Singapore, who’s very helpful and brilliant (has almost all good qualities) said that it was very embarrasing to Islam from Syana’s performance and the girls themselves were embarrassing themselves and its an islamic state. Our physics teacher is always dressed-up in a 2 layers of hijab and said that all Muslim girls should follow her own dress code instead of Syana’s from birth. She added on that even though her daughter was 5 years old, she’s forced to put on a huge scarf so that she learns from that point of her life that she should feel incomplete without her scarf or even hijab. She said ” this is what happens if you leave the management of the show to youths.

However, my parents loved Syana’s performance. Even an American teacher said that what Syana has done was totally against Islam and then she asked on where’s their Islamic values ( even though this teacher is a Christian and it makes no business for her to say that).

Even though, Syana intelligently bullies and even might hate me, I felt quite pitynfor her and almost felt like to cry. Now, even though, she wasn’t performing in the semi- or fully nude, she was attacked.

  
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I think this shows just how outrageus religious conservatism can be, and why it must be wiped out.

  
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Sachiko,

Another thing I have to say about Syana, she likes to wear sexy tight-fitting clothes ( but not the ones which reveals her skin as its not permitted in our school). A lot many guys get turned- on by her. She doesn’t have a very pretty face but the way she presents her body in her long garbs ( as skimpy attires aren’t permitted there) gets almost every guy’s gets turned-on by her. When she wears her school uniform, she purposefully unbuttons the button after the button we use it wear a tie, to allow guys around her to have a glimpse of her fine cleavage. When some of my male friends, who hate her, were saying all this, they ended-up calling her a ‘cheap slut.’

Her dad sent her here in this part of Malaysia to make her very Islamic but I hope that she doesn’t change and remains her true self ( she seems to be quite similar to you). However, since her family is quite ultraconservative, there’re many times where she dresses-up more islamically than any of the Malaysians around us, sometimes even covers-up her face with a ‘naqab,’ and does a lot of other islamic practises uncommon in Malaysia. She even asked my 8 years old sister who’s not a muslim, on why doesn’t she put on a naqab. What actually is she? Sometimes she presents and behaves herself like a downright ultraconservative radical, sometimes, like moderate, and sometimes like a downright liberal like you. What is she? Is she a hypocrite, or is she trying bring a balance to her life of being religious and liberal since she’s from a very ultraconservative family. I think that she’s doing a second one. But she’s never shy to boys. She’s living in the hostel of our school where she’s away from her family.

  
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I think her behaviour is just a natural consequence of the conflict between whe she wants to be, and what her family wants her to be. I used to try to make my family happy too, but I eventually gave up.

  
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Sachiko,

I hope that she eventually becomes like you. But she always makes fun of me, she finds me weird but I think that something is there in her that would never make me hate her. She isn’t so pretty to many, yet she’s cute and is very sexy. Honestly, her appearance is quite almost exactly what I want, it sparks me a sense to be with her. She’s a hip-hop girl, something, that I want. Many of the other guys think of only sex when they look at her but I think of something more than that. Sometimes I try to feel shy whenever she directly looks at my face. Other guys make fun of me whenever they hear me saying that. On the second day after I first met her, she rushed tome with great cheerfulness, something that I admire. When she says that she’s leaving back to her hometown, I break into tears. I feel so sad when she’s away. What actually am I thinking? What actually do you call all this? What exactly happened to me? Please tell me.

  
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Sounds like you might be in love. :-)

  
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Sachiko,

Yeah, it may be true, but its a very dangerous decision for me to have her since I heard from many that her dad is an ‘imam’ of the greatest mosque in Holland. So, marrying her would force me to be a muslim that I dun want to,and you know consequences. Also, as in Islamic law, a female is marraigable by the age of 10, so she might be married, who knows, or she might’ve a boyfriend. She finds me just too ugly and smelly and finds me to be too weird for her, so I dun want to be a burden to her. I think that its a very unrealistic love which I must stop but the problem my heart doesn’t feel like to deny.What can I do now?

  
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hi Sachiko,

my first visit to this site (which I found thru link on PlanetJapan), got drawn in by the “god v satan” graph, and am well impressed, there are so many “believers” yet so few humanists. it is late now here in the UK but will return, thank you.

  
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@jr4412 – Thanks for your comments!

@Anurag – If you really are smelly, then that’s definitely something you should fix if you want to get any girl! If she really does think you’re ugly and weird (she may just be saying that), then she might change her mind if she got to know you better anyway. It sounds to me as though she really doesn’t want to be a Muslim, so if you can show her a superior alternative, it might be the way to her heart.

  
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Dear Sachiko,

Thanks for the nice piece of advice. But even if she likes me, I would be forced to be a muslim. You see!

  
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Like I said, it sounds like she doesn’t want to be a Muslim, so maybe you can show her a better way. :-)

  
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Sachiko,

When, I sometimes look at her, she looks a very fierce lady someone whom I don’t my partner to be. But there’s a very pretty girl by the name Atif, who, compared to her has extremely very tiny breasts. She has more similarities with me in terms of attitude. So, I dunno on whom do exactly, do i want. ;-)

  
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Sorry Sachiko,

On the last post. I shouldn’t have said it. Anyways, today, my teacher caught me typing about my crush on Syana or Atif, he ended up saying that on how earth am I telling all of secrets to a total stranger. I said that she wasn’t a total stranger to me but even though he agreed with it in some ways he said you still are a stranger to me.

  
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Sometimes talking to an independant third party can help to give you a good perspective on things. :-)

  
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Sachiko,

I agree, But now let me thing about it by myself. Thanks for your wonderful piece of advice. I am major exams are around the corner, so its not wise for me to think about my crushes. .But I would ask you questions if I have any doubts about life. :-) Now how about that

  
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Hi Sachiko,

Today, some of my friends were discussing on why don’t women realise that they’re embarassing themselves when they wear miniskirts in public since little kids also look at them showing their semi-nude body and when these girls ride themselves up the escalators, other guys can have a full view of their underwears. What can you say of this?

  
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This is only embarassing if you think it’s embarassing. Personally, I don’t see anything wrong with people seeing my underwear – or indeed, if they can see I actually don’t have any underwear at all. ;-)

  
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Dear Sachiko,

Today, my dad who’s a world class doctor, said that exhibitionism is a very dangerous, destructive, and disturbing form of psychological problem. DId you know about that? And since you’re fond of exhibitionism, my dad could strongly suggest you to see a psychiatrist if would’ve got to know you. Also, my dad said women who like to show their boobs in the public are cheap sluts and women who dance in the nude infront of clothed men are always poorer than her audiences I don’t know if he meant literally or illiterally or both. He also added on that clothes and shoes brings respect and dignity in and a person without it has no good universal values like, dignity, pride, respect, education, intelligence,etc. Now, what do you’ve to say about all this? Please tell me.

  
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Well I feel blind conservatism is a very dangerous, destructive, and disturbing form of psychological problem! You’ve asked me about this sort of thing many times, and my answer is always the same – this attitude is just ignorant conservatism and traditionalism, without any real basis in logic or fact.

  
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Dear Sachiko,

Do you any girl or woman other than you who is like you? Do you know them? Where do they live please tell me.

  
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Unfortunately, I seem to be one of a kind. :-)

  
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Well Sachiko,

If not like you, then at least one whom you know who likes to be nude in public without any shame or guilt simply to feel free and to share her beauty with people around her. I mean, at least women like of portal superbeauty.org and body in mind?

  
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I think there are a few of those around, but probably not in your part of the world unfortunately. ;-)

  
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Hi Sachiko,

I see. So sad to get reminded about that. Anyhow, do women like you strictly 100% can only have relationships with guys with long dicks or they’ve no problem with that? Iwant to know since I don’t have a very long dick. So, will women, like in body in mind or like you would accept me as their life partnerships or will I have to forget having relationships with them, please tell me.

  
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Hi Anurag,

I can assure you that the idea that most women care about penis size is a complete myth. Indeed, most Asian women prefer them not to be too big, as it is uncomfortable for us. Nothing makes me laugh more than the men who think they can have sex with me by telling me they have a large penis!

  
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@Anurag

I am wondering what definition of ‘exhibitionism’ applies. Didn’t Victorian era standards view the exposed ankle as a big deal? I suppose some fundamentalist societies today are at that level.
I am also wondering how seeing a beautiful woman can be considered dangerous? Certainly not for children, who it seems pay far less attention to this than some parents fear and imagine. Dangerous because a strange man might see? That slippery slope can be modified to fit almost anything.
My comment for the good doctor is lighten up. Let other people live as they wish and concentrate on your own.

  
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I couldn’t agree more BBQd Bob! Your point about the historical context is actually a very good one.

  
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Hi Sachiko,

I see. Now I am feelin much better and much happier. Since, many girls go gaga when a guy of African origin comes over to our school simply they’re known to have the longest dicks.

  
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Sachiko,

Is it true that all bellydancers are in their 30s or 40s? How long does it take to do fully learn bellydance?

  
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I’m sure there are some professional belly dancers who are younger than that, but it is true that they tend to be mature. As I am not a real professional I don’t know how long it would take to reach that level, but for the sort of bellydance I do, I picked it up quite quickly and naturally (I am self taught).

  
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Dear Sachiko,

I would like to ask you another very important question, can westernisation maintain social harmony? Please allow me to explain this through this recent event that occured in Australia:

A group of frustrated Australian boys saw a lot of Indian overseas students passing by the street. As India is now world’s economic superpower, these students would definitely be walking around in their sophisticated gadgets liked Ipods, and Iphones. Also, as Indian families are close-knit, and strong family-bonded, their parents tend to provide their kids with expensive goods out of love. These frustrated Australian guys, who, like from any western families tend to survive all on their own and as Australia is suffering from strong economic downturn compared with India, these guys out of jealousy, stabbed all of these Indian youths brutally. One guy got his head stabbed brutally.

Things like these are happening again and again in Australia to the Indians.Are you dreaming to see a world like a tribal one like Papua New Guinea where people are naked but lead a very primitive and barbaric life? I have also heard that western culture is ain’t good for senior citizens and youths but just the adults since you got to spend from your own efforts. As you’ve always said that its patriarchy to be blamed for the suppression of female beauty and her nudity, is that really true? Do you still believe that liberated female beauty won’t destroy mankind? I am deeply sorry I am being rude,but please tell me as soon as possible. Kindly please, I need to know. I am confused.

  
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Don’t be silly Anurag! Australia is a much richer country than India on a per capita basis, with a far higher standard of living – no Australian would attack an Indian for the reason you suggest! Violent assaults like this are hardly common in Australia in general (far less common than in India or most other countries anyway), but they do still happen sadly. While the brutality of this particular incident is unusual, there does appear to be a group of racist Australian youths in Melbourne who have been getting away with attacking Indian students for far too long now. Still, once the perpetrators of these terrible and cowardly attacks are caught, I’m sure our legal system will deal with them appropriately.

Nudity has absolutely nothing to do with this type of attack either, or barbarism in general. The fact that you still make such a connection at all shows that you are still stuck in a conservative mindset. And senior citizens and youths are looked after much better in the west than in a country like India!

  
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Well Sachiko,

I see. I agree a lot on what’ve you said. However, have you been to India? How come you know so much about India.? Please tell me, I am not being angry. Well, I am not being conservative but I was trying to think which way is wiser since I am still young for this. I’ve to be careful, you see? And how about the massive historic Indian economic boom? Please elaborate a bit more regarding that matter.

  
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The fact that India has a massive population of very poor people is well known across the world. No matter how much of an economic boom India may be having, only a relatively small percentage of India’s population is really benefiting from it. In Australia however, very few people are really poor.

  
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Some four years ago, my teacher from USA said that In Malaysia you can’t walk around nude as its not in their culture. If she walked around naked, then a police there would come and catch her. If it was back in her hometown, it wouldn’t be an issue there at all. When one of my friends asked her if whether guys there stare at the nude girls there, her reply was ” you know, if you continue to see nude woman constantly, you would be so bored and disgusted with it that you don’t even wanna look at it. This is because, you would see women to have totally same body parts.” After that, I went in saying, “well, even if you won’t be sexually stimulated looking at her nude body, you would still keep on admiring her beauty.” Then she shocked and said ” Hello! That’s just weird! A nude woman is never beautiful. You guys just like to look at them due your hormonal reasons and even if you’re able to see the beauty in them, then you might having some major kind of sexual problem. To me a mountain is beautiful, but a nude women, NO, never. SO,it means that you’re suffering from a very deep psychological problem. You better gotta change that!” However, still I disagree with her. Do you fully agree with her? Does this means that we ( as in me, you, Eolake, and supporters of sites like superbeauty.org) are having some sort of serious sexual and psychological problem, please tell me. What do you’ve to say about this lady?

  
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Anyone who says a naked woman is never beautiful is either deluded or a liar – no question. She is the one who has deep psychological problems, brought about by generations of sexual suppression.

  
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Hi Sachiko,

I am now also convinced with you. Few years later, many of us have begun to find her to be quite ‘cocky ( sorry for my language), both me and the religious conservatives. They find her to be like this not for the reason we’re discussing about but some other reasons. Most of them simply hate simply because she’s American and she was supporting ‘nudism’ in some ways. These conservatives almost ‘puke’ when they think of what this American teacher has said about Americans normal attitudes towards nudity. They ask ” how can we tolerate people walking around in the nude? Its just too gross!” Now what can you say about my school? Liberal, conservative, prude, or totally “f***ed-up”? I still am unable to understand this school where I study. Can you please tell me?

  
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It’s a place like most others, where different people have different opinions – only worry about your’s. :-)

  
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Sachiko,

Thanks for your piece of advice. Seriously, I appreciated it. :-)

  
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Hello Sachiko,

Is it alrite if I copy and paste photographs of nude photos from a nude site and make slideshows oe site of ut of it seriously for myself? I always give credit to the site of origin. So, is still wrong? Is it really sick on what am I doing? Please tell me

  
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If it’s just for your personal use it should be fine. And no, it isn’t sick (as I’ve told you many times!).

  
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Few weeks ago, my mom caught me red-handed with those slideshows stored in a special pendrive which my mom didn’t know about ( it was given by my porn-loving teacher). I led to her that my teacher gave it to me to save for my past papers ( initially it was).Then she handed on to my dad and he was shocked to see on how was I able to carry out such a task and shocked to see me copying and pasting all those pics mostly in which they are stripping down to their beautiful nude selfs. He added on that he would’ve been proud of me if I could’ve used for preparin’ for my studies but felt ashamed to see all that. He said ‘ thats crazy!” I then went on to justify it to my mom that many guys at around this age watch porn. They agreed by the fact that guys at around my age watch porn but eventually end up as lousy, unsuccessful, and poor people. My mom said, ” son, please kindly learn this fact that when you start watching porn, it would be the beginning of the end of you ending-up as a beggar.” My dad gave an example of his extremely vilolent unsuccessful brother who used to watch porn when he was young just semi-nude pics. of women on magazines but my dad himself didn’t so he’s successful man. My mom then asked, “so are you gonna be the nude photgrapher?!” she asked me sarcastically with a strong sense of disgust on imagining of nude women. Whats so disgusting of nude women who are as beautiful as you? Then my mother hit me hard several times for that and said sarcastically’ ” oh my intelligent nude photographer to- be son, shall I ask my friends to pose nude for ya? ( trust me, they’re mostly ugly, eww!) I am giving you a bet that noone would let you into the house. YOU are a SHAME to our HOUSE!” My mother even added on the reason why no girlz like me is because of my this attitude. Everytime she gets reminded of this till now, she gets furious at a very unimaginable extent.

On another note, she said that you only use your brain when you follow your seniors like your parents’, teachers’, older brother and sister’s, and grandparents’ advise.

Now Sachiko, what do you say of all this, Sachiko? Please tell me.

  
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Oh sorry to add on, were you treat by your parents the same way?

  
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Your dad is lying Anurag – there are two kinds of men in this world: those who’ve looked at porn, and those who lie that they haven’t. He’s looked at it just like every other man has, so it clearly doesn’t have anything to do with whether a man is successful or not, beacuse all men do it – your parents’ story is complete BS. You shouldn’t be ashamed of looking at porn; they should be ashamed for lying to you so blatantly. Following your seniors’ lies is not using your brain at all – thinking for yourself is.

Luckily for me, I never got caught. ;-)

  
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Dear Sachiko,

Thanks for telling me. BTW, is it true that when women are nude ( i.e. even without an underwear), do they smell. Did your photographers like Lee complained about your smell when you stayed nude around them for a long time? Please tell me.

  
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Hi Anurag,

All people’s genitalia smell to some degree (usually more so with women than with men), but you’d usually have to bring your nose very close to them to tell. So if a women’s hygienic, she won’t smell!

  
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I would like to ask you on some questions ( this I am not concerned on what others think, I just want t o know, and know on how to tackle it):
1. Whats so immature about female nudity?
People say that when a woman matures to her 40s or 50s, she’s expected to put on more modest attires. A woman is said to be immature when she wears revealing clothings. I don’t believe so but why?
2. Whats so disgusting about female nudity?
Whenever, I show my friends a music video or a drama in which a woman exposes some level of her skin, they tend to have nauseated or disgusted face and when I ask them why, they sometimes they say “we don’t no!” However, whenever, other guys see another woman when they’re not horny, they say that its extremely disgusting and sick. Girls say that all the time whne they see it with an “eeeew!” but why?

Please tell me.

  
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Originally Posted By Anurag
1. Whats so immature about female nudity?
People say that when a woman matures to her 40s or 50s, she’s expected to put on more modest attires. A woman is said to be immature when she wears revealing clothings. I don’t believe so but why?

I think it’s just because we find youthful naked bodies attractive, but not very old looking ones. :-)

2. Whats so disgusting about female nudity?
Whenever, I show my friends a music video or a drama in which a woman exposes some level of her skin, they tend to have nauseated or disgusted face and when I ask them why, they sometimes they say “we don’t no!” However, whenever, other guys see another woman when they’re not horny, they say that its extremely disgusting and sick. Girls say that all the time whne they see it with an “eeeew!” but why?

This is once again basically the same question you’ve asked me many times now. People are simply trained to react that way, but it’s not how they really think or feel, which is why they can’t explain it.

  
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I would like to ask you a very important question. Is staring a very good and beneficial thing or not? After a continuous two hour debate on if staring at someone is wrong or right with my parents, it eventually ended up to be wrong. Its a misdemeanour especially, in your places and the US and in India? Feminists would be up in arms if they catch you staring at her. Its a misdemeanour since it would lower-up the confidence of the person whom you’re staring at. Its really a very wrong thing to do, m’am, they say. Thats what I’ve been told. My mother then added on that when she was a young girl, she and her friends used to feel quite cheap whenever college boys used to stare at them, why, because they were good girls. Only bad girls, she puts on like ‘prostitutes’, would love to be stared upon by these boys. She said that if I was in India if I stayed there, I would have a hard time living there because girls can even take you to as far as jail for ‘staring’ at them. These girls (good ones) would pick their shoes and throw at the guys face. Women (good) actually feel harrassed when they see a guy staring at them. My mother even said that a local Indian singer in her home state was insulted by his chief guests by leaving-off straight away simply because at a lady chief guest. Now how can you change all this? Law of psychology states that when an individual or a minority blames the whole soceity then they’re sais to be psychologically ill. Now, how would you justify all this? Do you feel bad?

  
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That depends on what you mean by staring! If it’s just admiring a beautiful woman then I think it’s fine. You can’t just automatically assume that society is right when an individual speaks up against it, otherwise there would be no progress. We’d still have racism, sexism, slavery etc. were it not for a few individuals being brave enough to speak up against that accepted wisdom and change things.

  
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Sachiko,

If women were allowed to walk around in the nude, so what would be the difference between a human and an animal especially a primate. Women are forced to put on clothes so that they would have a standard higher and different than an animal. Also primates are proven to be more and more intelligent than thought. So whats the real difference?

  
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That’s the thing really – we aren’t really fundamentally different. We are unique in as much as we are almost entirely dependant upon our brains to survive (which is why we should learn how to use them properly!), but that doesn’t makes us better than other animals. It does seem as though we have the biggest ego of all animals though, which is why we create religion and other social and political BS to make us feel we’re special and superior to other animals. But we aren’t really better than them at all.

  
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Sachiko,

Are you married? If not then is it because you were unable to find your dreamboy or do you prefer to stay alone? What would the soceiy call you? Aren’t you afraid of being rumoured? Please tell me.

  
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I don’t think I could ever be married in the usual sense of the word, as I really prefer to live alone. I really need my own personal space, and I need everything to be exactly the way I want it to be at home. As such, I am a very difficult person to live with! I don’t really care what society calls me. :-)

  
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Dear Sachiko,

I think you’re beatiful … do you have an similarly beatiful single girlfriends who would be interested in a life partner who is an experienced entrepreneur (who is now off to the next fun business) to share his life with (he just happens to live in Honolulu which is very welcoming particularly to Japanese people who love to travel here) … Aloha!

  
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Hi Eddie,

Sorry, but I don’t. :-)

  
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Sachiko ..what do you think about South Korean pop singer and model Lee Hyori ?

I am her fan ,but i defend her when people call her slut or whore ..
She is considered sexy star there …why do some idiots call sexy women whores and sluts ?

I really like Hyori ,but these people get on my nerves .Maybe i am blinded by fandom ..I sit all day at home and look at her vids ..LoL !!!
I guess i am a loser ..and my mom complains that i dont look for a job ..

  
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To say that someone like Lee Hyori is a “slut” or a “whore” is clearly just old-fashioned, religiously inspired conservative dogma. Hell, she doesn’t even take her clothes off! I do feel people tend to be even more critical of sexy Asian stars – any pop bimbo on MTV wears at least as little as Lee Hyori. It seems as though a lot of people think Asian girls aren’t allowed to be sexy like other ethnicities.

  
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Yeah ..i dont know why some people think that sexy Asian girls are sluts when White and Latina ones branded as sensuaous /sexy !!

its a double standard in my view ,but i think i know why it is like that .Many American White man go to South Asian countries like Vietnam or Thailand for sex tours .they give many other decent White man a bad name . Many of these countries are very poor so many of these women have little opportiunities at moving up a respecteful way .

Its sad though .but i guess its the way this world works !!

  
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Sachiko,

Even, I feel pity for Lee Hyori.

Kindly,

Anurag

  
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Sachiko,

IS it true that the body make-up spoils the skin?

  
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Actually, that’s a key reason I never wear makeup at all – it does damage our skin in the long term.

  
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Dear Sachiko,

Do you put oil on your body before being photographed ( in the nude)? Do you wax, shave, or bleach to give all of us a smooth image?

Few days back my mom said that the reason why we wear clothes and clothes are made is because our nude body is a nuisance. Or else we would have been wandering around in the nude. What do you think of this?

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@Anurag – Actually, I don’t do any of this believe it or not, except for trimming my pubic hair and under my armpits. I only just occasionally pluck hair from my legs, as they are naturally not hairy. This is a very lucky thing, as shaven skin always feels a little rough. I am just naturally smooth.

I don’t think your mother’s idea makes much sense, but there are many practical reasons for us to wear clothing under a lot of circumstances (especially to keep warm, but also for protection etc.).

  
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Hi Sachiko,

I heard from one of my atheist friends that being an atheist means that you’re not forgiveable, and would kill if they wished. They’re pityless.
Is it true?

  
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Hi Anurag,

This is utter rubbish – in fact I’m sure you must be making this up, as no atheist would actually say this. I won’t bother answering this ridiculous question: simply read my blog to see what I think about atheism vs. religion with regards to morality. In short, atheists are often far more moral than theists.

  
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Dear Sachiko,

Is it true that when a nude woman dances nude infront of her clothed audiences, does that mean that she is a prostitute?

ANother reason why nudity is hated is because its considered to be demeaning. What do you have to say of this?

  
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Originally Posted By Anurag
Dear Sachiko,

Is it true that when a nude woman dances nude infront of her clothed audiences, does that mean that she is a prostitute?

No – and there is absolutely nothing wrong with prostitution anyway.

ANother reason why nudity is hated is because its considered to be demeaning. What do you have to say of this?

This is purely circular reasoning, as only the people who hate nudity consider it demeaning. They’re basically saying they hate nudity because it is demeaning, but it is demeaning because they hate it!

  
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One day, when I was was walking down a street in the Islamic part of Malaysia where I live,I saw a signboard written for muslim women on how to dress and the reason it was done was for the harmony of the public. How on earth would female nudity break the harmony of the public?

Another thing is its internationally said that modesty is a feminine trait? What do you’ve to say of this?

  
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What is considered harmonious is simply a product of what society is used to; if we were all naked, it wouldn’t cause any problems for society, as it would just be considered normal. Also, modesty is no more a female trait than it is a male trait: both men and women can be equally modest, or immodest.

Regarding your previous question on atheism, I think you should carefully read my recent Religion and Morality article. I will be doing another post on the statistics of religion and morality as well.

  
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I read it and I liked it.

  
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Whats so wrong in being naked that a person is made to stand up naked in public as a form of punishment. Why?

One of the reasons why we’re told in India not to look at a woman naked is because she is like your sister or mother? Do you want your sister to be seen naked?

Whats so humorous of a person being naked that people laugh at it?

Is it alrite for you if some guy calls you to be sexy? This because women hate being addressed sexy by men. Why?

Why only kids have the right to be naked in public but not adults?

  
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Hi Anurag,

I don’t mind being called sexy at all! Your point about the fact that we allow children to be naked in public but not adults shows how hypocritical this all is – it’s all just illogical societal expectations.

  
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Hi Sachiko,

BTW, Yesterday, while they’ve announced that the airport authorities will strip check anybody travelling to the United States. One lady laughed and said it on CNN that she doesn’t care if they see her nude as she is old. But why?

Also some guys close their eyes when they see a girl wearing a bra and panties. Why? It covers-up the parts considered to be censored.

  
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Hi Sachiko,

BTW, Yesterday, while they’ve announced that the airport authorities will strip check anybody travelling to the United States. One lady laughed and said it on CNN that she doesn’t care if they see her nude as she is old. But why?

I’m sure that was just a joke – she’s saying that because she’s old, guys won’t check out her body.

Also some guys close their eyes when they see a girl wearing a bra and panties. Why? It covers-up the parts considered to be censored.

That doesn’t sound like any guys I know – it certainly isn’t what happens when I wear them anyway! ;-)

  
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Hi Anrug,

In Australia we have bill boards with girls wearing bra’s and panties. Sometimes, they have to take them down because they cause too many car accidents. ;)

  
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Hi Sachiko,

A woman getting paid for posing nude is said to be selling her body. How far do you disagree with this statement?

  
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I guess you could call it selling your body. So what?

  
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Hi Sachiko,

Great photos. I noticed a lot were taken on the Gold Coast do you live there?

  
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I actually live between Brisbane and the Gold Coast.

  
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Hi Sachiko,

Is it right that if a female is not shy, she doesn’t have any womanly nature?

  
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In a word, no.

  
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Hi Sachiko,
What are your opinions on recent University of Sydney research regarding the apparent destructive potential of pornography?

  
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Welcome to my blog James! I have to admit that I haven’t heard about this – I’ll have to look it up. It sounds like something that might be worth doing a post on, although we do know that pornography and erotica can be indirectly beneficial to man’s health if it helps him to masturbate, as there is very strong evidence linking regular masturbation to a real decrease in the incidence of prostate cancer.

  
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LOL, Sachiko cures cancer!

  
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Dear Sachiko,

Tosay, someone said to me that you’re a pornstar and anyone who tells a pornstar about his feelings is a big loser. WHat do you think of this?

Today, I asked my mom on why are there bomb blasts in Indonesia but not in Malaysia and her answer was that they has too much freedom. SHe said that excess freedom is the evil. Excess freedom like lying nude on the beach was not permitted in Malaysia. What so you think of this?

  
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Hi Anurag,

Originally Posted By Anurag
Dear Sachiko,

Tosay, someone said to me that you’re a pornstar and anyone who tells a pornstar about his feelings is a big loser. WHat do you think of this?

I think people should be able to tell their feelings to whoever they feel comfortable to tell them too.

Today, I asked my mom on why are there bomb blasts in Indonesia but not in Malaysia and her answer was that they has too much freedom. SHe said that excess freedom is the evil. Excess freedom like lying nude on the beach was not permitted in Malaysia. What so you think of this?

Actually, Malaysia is much more free and progressive country overall than Indonesia! And bomb blasts happen far more often in conservative Muslim countries than anywhere else, because it is Muslims who perpetrate them. So the facts show exactly the opposite to what your mother is saying.

  
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Dear Sachiko,

Have you been to Malaysia? I see that Indonesian girls are more free than Malaysian Muslim girls? In Indonesia, muslim girls pose in a bikini but in Malaysian girls are afraid to remove a headscarf.

  
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@Anurag – It is only in Bali (not Indonesia in general) that people are relatively free of Islamic suppression (because it is predominantly Hindu). Most of Indonesia is quite conservative Muslim. Malaysia is more free of this than Indonesia because it is more culturally diverse and progressive.

  
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Hi Sashiko, I have looked at your website a few times, and even if I think you are beautiful, I was stunned when I found your blog and started to read what you write and watch your videos. Thanks for ruining my work ethic btw, I spent more time reading and watching than working… Totally head on. You are funny. You are smart and informed, attributes way more sexier than your nice breasts. After all, sex can be good, but lasts less than a great conversation. I was happy to see that my country Sweden (although I live in Hawaii) ranked high on the peaceful list. As an atheist, I find myself a minority here in the US. There are VERY many ignorant people here to say the least… and one day they may vote for Sarah Palin… Then I’ll move to Australia… So keep up the funny insightful blogs and videos and keep fighting ignorance. Take care,
Christian (but not religious…)
By the way, I thought you are married ?

  
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Welcome to my blog Christian, and thank you so much for your lovely compliments! To answer your question, I don’t think I ever could be married in the sense that most people understand the concept – I value my freedom and independence too much!

  
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I hear you. Marriage is an institution that most often does not work. But what institution does ? And you can uphold all values and be moral without it too…
So how is it down under these days? I once lived there for a short time, but ended up in Hawaii. Nice beaches here too. Better. Great for photoshoots, should you ever stop by. And the jungle could make for some good shoots too. You Tarzan me Jane ?

  
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@Christian – Which part of Australia did you live in? Where I am (southeast Queensland) has lots of really lovely beaches and great places to shoot as well (as you can see from my modelling web site).

  
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Actually, I lived in Sydney, then went up north. Explored most parts of Queensland, all the way up to Cape York. An adventure… Then lived in Adelaide for a while. Hitch hiked through the desert up to Darwin, took me 2 weeks. Yes, Down under was great, beautiful and interesting. Now if only I would have met someone…
Love your Bible videos, wish I could send them to some religous people I know, but they would not understand the irony…
If you lived in the US you would go nuts, but also have lots of material for your blog…
C

  
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Hope all is good down there, out here the sun shines like always…

Was out driving yesterday and saw this stupid religious sign right next to a kindergarten… They are trying to recruit religious fanatics younger and younger. Here in Hawaii there is a huge variety of strange religions, and/or cults. The Mormons have a good stronghold too, recruiting everyone that gets of the boat from the Pacific islands. Uneducated victims. Have you ever thought about that religion correlates with intelligence and education… They often don’t both exist in the same person. Unless you’re the leader, then you’re pretty smart. Who was it that said “The easiest way to get rich is to start a religion”. It was some cult leader in the 60-70′s. He had 30 Rolls Royce’s or so… Hmm, makes you start wonder. Maybe you Sachiko should really start a religion. An anti religion. You would get tons of followers and rich too ! As long as you make me co-priest, since it was my idea…

  
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What, they took the panties and bras down ? How did they do that ?
@David of Brisbane -

  
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BTW, I lived a while in Byron Bay, had some good friends there. Loved it way much. Are you close ?

  
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@Christian – I guess it depends on what you mean by close! I’ve often thought about the logistics of starting an “anti-religion” actually: we need to replace the social aspect of church with something.

  
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True, Australia is huge. Not like Hawaii…
Will go there one day again. You can maybe show me around…

Guess those Anti-religious movements have been started before… in the 60′s they were called hippies. But not very organized. Kind of disorganized really, due to all that pot I guess. Then there have been some crazy cults, but they often become a religion in themselves. Will be hard to replace the Pope and Co, they will as always cling onto their power and wealth. Religion only works with fear and rewards, I guess if you started one I am sure you could come up with rewards for being good, but fear ?
C

  
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I’m glad you decided with Lee to post the 10 comm. videos online. Bigots on YouTube wants to hear their own delusions only! they can not stand the facts regarding the contradictions, myths, lies and nonsense their myth Book full of, They believe in and they live by.

  
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Sachiko,

Today, a friend A of mine asked, ” What if you were a father, would you allow your daughter to walk around in sexy dresses?” I then replied with a “yes!” He then stared at me for a while, and then said, “ok.” Then he asked, ” What if you knew that guys around her are having a really dirty, sick thought about her and gawking at her like a piece of meat? WHat would you do?!” I was unable to answer. He then continued saying that he would like to look at a stranger girl in a skimpy attire but he wouldn’t tolerate his daughter to wear skimpy attires in order to safeguard her well-being, protect her, and prevent people from having wrong assumptions that she’s a ‘slut.’

I then asked my friend B the same question friend A asked me. His reply was, ” Obviously, I would scold my daughter for wearing those kinds of clothes. ” He asked me the same question, and I said, ” I won’t mind.” He was surprised and asked me, ” why on Earth wouldn’t you? You should feel angry.”

What’s the answer? I can’t able to figure it out. What do you think of my friends A and B? Please tell me.

  
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Hi Anurag,

Sorry it took me so long to get to answering your question – I’ve been very busy over the past week.

The fact of the matter is, all men have “dirty” thoughts about women all the time – it is their instinct. And there isn’t anything wrong with this, along as they don’t decide to act on them inappropriately.

The safety issue is a genuine concern though. I love to dress sexy, but I will only do so in a safe environment – I will not walk past a pub full of drunks at midnight, for example. Still, I’ll avoid doing that no matter what I’m wearing – in general, if a place is safe for women, it is safe for them to wear sexy clothes. This will only be the case in a country where this is already socially accepted though: there’s no way I’d dress sexy in a Muslim country, for example, as I would certainly be attacked.

  
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Sachiko; I have been reading about you on the internet and reviewing your blog entries. You seem to be a very intelligent, interesting and thoughtful person. I was interested in engaging you either in a public forum such as this or in private on your atheist views. Specifically, if you have any theories or perspective on the human race as to how we have arrived to this point. You can reference readings published by Richard Dawkins, as I have read some of his theories in his most recent book, the “God Delusion” I think is the title. Be advised that I am of the opinion that Mr Dawkins is a brilliant man but I confess I find many of his assertions unconvincing. Can we engage in a little discussion?

  
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Welcome to my blog Ed!

I’m happy to answer any questions you might have, although I am exceedingly busy at the moment, so it may take me a while to get around to them. Also, as there are so many comments on this page already, perhaps my FAQ page will be a more appropriate place to post your questions than here.

  
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Hey Sachiko !

Long time fan and always intrigued with what you have to say about whatever topic it may be. You are a very intelligent woman which is what attracted me to come back your site (among other things :P ) I was wondering what is easier to learn Japanese or Chinese? I’ve been thinking of learning either one or the other or even both Which would you suggest to learn first?

  
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Welcome to my blog, and thanks for your compliments!

I’d say Chinese and Japanese are equally difficult to speak, but because of Romanji, Japanese would probably be a bit easier for an English speaker to learn.

  
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Yes, Japanese is easier Mr. South.
Plus, Chinese, which dialect ? Many Chinese can hardly understand each other if they dont come from the same part of the country, despite Chairman Maos great efforts… My wife is from Macau and she has a hard time understanding when we travel in China. BTW, Sachiko, she kind of reminds me very much of you, well you have longer hair and one d more. Wouldn’t even be surprised if you talk the same. If you ever stop by in Hawaii lets have a drink together.
Have a great weekend !

  
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@Sachiko

Thanks for the info Japanese it is ! Think you’re up to teach? haha I speak both english and spanish and would like to learn other languages. I was suppose to travel to Japan, Korea, Thailand and Laos this past summer but couldn’t due to work. Would’ve been an amazing experience if i had gone.

  
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Dear Sachiko

Im Roy from the Netherlands im 30 years old and i own a business. I like your way of thinking and your open mind. There are a lot of things i want to ask you?? And i think your interesting and very beautiful! I hope too hear from you soon!!

roy

  
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@dobermann – Thanks Roy, and welcome to my blog! I got your email as well – I will respond soon. :-)

  
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Hello Sachiko I think you are very passionate in your convictions; I also think you are very hot (lets meet up somewhere).

  
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